doing nothing is also a choice

Doing nothing is also a choice

But what would happen if you did dare to take that new step?

For all women who want to be different. Women who are ready for change. Women like you.

There comes a time when you can no longer ignore what your body and heart have been trying to tell you for some time. That there is more to you, more than just meeting expectations, more than just being "good enough. It is time to explore that restlessness you feel deep inside. Your search for new challenge, development and growth on a personal and business level. 

It's time to stand up. Let your voice be heard. To embrace your true potential. You were made for more - more freedom, more impact, and more living on your own terms. Using your value and power to not only shape your own future, but to be a catalyst for positive change in the world around you.

But it starts with one thing: choosing. Choosing for yourself.

From resistance to revolt

When I studied health sciences, I had a clear goal in mind. I wanted to get a PhD, do research, and contribute to the health of others. But along the way, I discovered that this route did not bring me what I really desired. Although I was offered a coveted PhD position, I decided to take a different path. Not without doubts and fears, but with the knowledge that I had to make the choice that suited me.

Eventually I went into the corporate world, where I enjoyed working with immense pleasure, with super nice colleagues and the many advancements and promotions. But the higher up the tree, the fewer spots there were. And there I faced a moment of stagnation as well as lack of challenge and freedom. Despite increasing resistance, I stayed put and continued in the same way. Because, who was I without my status, my job, my defined structure? Besides, I had had an "out-of-control" hobby (say side job) in the sports industry for 15 years and had become a mother in the meantime. Plenty of variety right? Everything was fine (on the outside, that is), so what could I complain about?

Do I really want to give up everything I have built, my career (job/current business) and financial security now? And what would others think? Why give that up for something else, temporarily taking a step back below your level? What will I get in return?

Corona brought me to a standstill as everything fell silent. Nothing no travel or contacts. Nothing no sports lessons, Nothing no childcare etc. The forced downtime. This period of rest, although also frustrating and confusing, taught me one important lesson: "You always have a choice." The penny dropped after I started listening to many podcasts while walking (which then, thankfully, I was eventually able to do again). And I knew that from now on the choices I made had to come from within me and aligned with who I really am. To what I have to offer, with my energy and the right people around me.

Is effortless entrepreneurship possible?

Getting up and living my life and my own business in my new position. Making impact in my own way and growing profitably on a personal, business and financial level. Was it an easy choice and the path of least resistance? No, absolutely not. 

But one thing I know 100% for sure. Doing nothing was no longer an option. Period.

The power of authentic choices

Change begins with making choices that resonate with your true self. With who you are and what you have to offer. It's easy to stay within the safe confines of expectations, but real growth happens when you make choices, and yes, also deviate from the beaten path. After all, outside the lines is so much room. 

When you make choices that energize you and make your heart leap, you are investing in a lifetime of growth on a personal and business/professional level.

What is your legacy?

What do you have to do here in life, what do you want to leave behind? Your contribution to the world is unique. But to discover it, you must be willing to dig deeper. What is really important to you? What values do you want to create, share and pass on in your professional and personal life? It is precisely by connecting to this deep desire that you will live your mission and create a life full of meaning and fulfillment.

Change as a catalyst for growth

Change is exciting and evokes resistance. Because you have to let go of what is now and you don't yet know exactly what is to come. Your desire, perseverance and mindset are the forces that make it possible, among other things, to take that new step. To find creative solutions to complex challenges that are going to come no matter what. And to push your boundaries and start using the space to experiment, learn and grow.

Your journey from the inside out

Change and growth come with peaks and valleys, only to peak again. It is precisely through your failed attempts and slips that you learn the most and fastest. Falling down and knowing how to get back up faster and faster and move on with your lessons learned. 

  1. Self-reflection: Where do you stand? What is holding you back? What do you need (right now)? Dwell on who you are and what drives you.
  2. Flexibility: Life doesn't always follow the planned route, and that's okay.
  3. Conscious choices: Choose what you want to spend your time and energy on. What really matters in your life?
  4. Surround yourself with like-minded people: Build a network of support and inspiration. With people who see, hear and appreciate you for who you are, what you do and give. People who uplift, inspire and give you the stage to achieve and make impact together.
  5. Keep learning and growing: Personal and professional growth go hand in hand. Your company cannot grow beyond you as a person. Each new phase of growth and new step in your career also requires new leadership from you. Work on that, always. 

Stand up. Reposition. Make a dent.

It is time to create your new position, to fully realize your potential and value and claim your place in the world. Because what you are here to do is of value, may be seen and heard. Indeed, should be 😉.

My rebellion has brought me to where I am today. The choices I made, right against the odds, have led me to a life of fulfillment, where my personal values are intertwined with my professional mission. 

And that is exactly what I want you to have: the courage to choose what really feels good. Knowing that that means letting go and living your own life against the odds.

One Life. Lead it. Live it.

Ready for the transformation?

Are you ready to discover who you really are and transform your life?
Take the first step today and make the choice that really suits you.

Happy week.

Warm regards,

Gerdi

Strategic Business Partner and Mentor for Women's Leadership

P.S. Remember, "You always have a choice." Make the choice today that brings you joy, energy and growth.

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Book tips:

Books that have helped me:

Strategy

John Lewis Gaddis - On strategic thinking
Patrick-Bet David & Greg Dinkin - Your Next Five Moves: Master the Art of Business Strategy
Alex Hormozi$100M Leads
Alex Hormozi - $100M Offers

Leadership & Entrepreneurship

The Diary of a CEO - Steven Bartlett
Tribes - Seth Godin
Principles - Ray Dalio
The Lean Startup - Eric Ries
Leaders Eat Last - Simon Sinek
Leading From The Emerging Future - C Otto Scharmer
Transformational Presence - Alan Seale
The Big Leap - Gay Hendricks

PS. I have a whole book list. If you are interested and would like to receive my favorite books list? Send me a message and I'll send you my favorites list. 

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