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From business building to life of meaning

Why successful women choose the Integral Growth System™

There comes a point when you realize you don't want to do more. You want to build differently.

This week, a successful woman called me. She had everything she thought she wanted: a well-run practice, waiting lists full of clients, financial security. But she felt trapped in her own success. She missed her freedom and another way to live her life and, above all, be meaningful in her own way. Less lived and rushed, but finally from peace, enrichment and freedom. Freedom not only visible in her bank account, but palpable in her body, her business and legacy.

I built what I wanted, but I lost myself in the process.

The difference between building and living

Most entrepreneurs build a business. They build a proliferation of offerings, piling systems upon systems, strategies upon strategies until they have an impressive structure that works perfectly on paper. But somewhere in that process, they lose themselves. Things get murky and noise develops. Not only in their business, but also in their positioning and marketing. They get further away from the essence, that which really matters in their lives.

ELLLE women are building a life of meaning. They start not at what the market demands, but at who they really are and what they are here to do. They build not by someone else's standards, but by their own definition of success. From within, from their essence. Still with drive, ambitions and focus on growth. But now from a different perspective, from peace, space and a different definition of success.

From work/life balance to life/work integration 

When I left my corporate career in 2020, I thought I was going to build a business. What I was actually doing was rebuilding my life. My work, my values, my well-being. Really everything came together into one integrated whole.

That's what I see now in the women leaders and entrepreneurs I work with. They no longer have their leadership fragmented across different life domains. They have created a system that does make sense. A higher standard that fits them and doesn't (under)pressure them.

Most systems are designed by and for a world in which success is linear. This is true in education, but also in the business world. In which you have to score, get points and more is always better. In which life and work are separate domains that you must "balance. 

I don't believe in work/life balance. When is it balanced? To me, this feels like constantly fighting to keep both in balance.

I am going for Life/Work integration: cyclical, intuitive, holistic. It calls for integration, not segregation. For flow, not force.

Because when you continue to squeeze yourself into systems that are not designed for you, you pay a price:

  • Your energy is fragmented across different "roles
  • Your intuition is overridden by external expectations
  • Your authenticity is sacrificed for 'professionalism'
  • Your well-being is subordinated to your performance

Why most systems fail

Many of us have been raised with the idea that success lies primarily in getting bigger, harder and more. But the greatest breakthrough does not come from yet more expertise, yet another promotion, yet another course. It comes about when you stop adding things and start tuning in: to who you are, what you want, what is really right for you.

Most systems are built for a world where growth equals working harder, managing more, controlling more. But if you want to make big impact and grow forward-looking, you need a new definition of leadership and success.

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The Integral Growth System™ for true transformation

System change requires a method that not only directs goals, but starts with fundamentals. In ELLLE, we therefore work with the Integral Growth System™.

This system connects strategic leadership and growth directly to your personal values, well-being and financial freedom. It replaces linear thinking with integrated leadership and growth in three dimensions:

1. Health: Rest, energy, vitality

Future-fit leadership starts with your health as the foundation of success, not as a byproduct of it. In my corporate years, I lived like it was survival, even as a health scientist and great sports fanatic, I subordinated my own health to my performance. Because my satisfaction, enjoyment and life energy had eventually plummeted to the detriment of my overall health.

Now I know better. Health is not something you do in addition to your work. It ís the foundation of your life, your work and your future. A healthy lifestyle in your way and your rhythm, where you work every day on your mental and physical health, sufficient sleep, nutritious food to be, feel and stay future-fit.

2. Wealth: Profit, security, value enrichment.

Financial freedom is not just a number in your bank account. It is the freedom to make choices from vision, not fear. It is the assurance that your business serves you, not the other way around.

Most of the women I talk to have gains, but no real freedom. They are trapped in their own success. True wealth is created by building multiple sources of income, by investing in yourself and your future, by developing financial strategies appropriate to your stage of life. From peace of mind, security and with your desired outcome.

3. Freedom: Live and lead on your own terms

Freedom is the ultimate goal of future-fit leadership. The reason many have chosen entrepreneurship. The freedom to live healthy full lives, schedule your own time, set your own priorities, chart your own course.

True freedom occurs when you trade external validation for internal navigation. When you stop living by other people's expectations and start living by your own values.

Spending your time and energy on those people and issues that really matter and where you can make your impact.

The paradox of female leadership

Female leadership has a paradox: The less you force, the more you achieve. The more you follow your own path, the more effective you are. The more you are yourself, the more impact you make.

Understanding and harnessing this paradox is at the heart of the Integral Growth System™. It's not about more willpower, more discipline, more effort. It's about innovating, investing (in time, energy AND money) to grow. It's about more alignment. To determine and choose what is right for yourself. Because the choice is not between being successful or being fulfilled. The choice is between fragmented success or integrated future-fit leadership, health AND success:

  • Having more time and energy, as well as directing it 
  • Having to work less hard for more results
  • Making better decisions from their intuition
  • Making deeper connections with relationships (private and business)
  • Experience more fulfillment in their daily work

When you integrate Health, Wealth and Freedom, something magical happens. Your success becomes a reflection of your authenticity, your potential and your value.

Because every day you wait to start living by your rules is a day you leave your potential untapped. Every day you conform to systems that don't suit you is a day you give away your authentic power. Hand over your leadership and lose yourself in total value.

But each day is also a new opportunity to choose. To choose growth. To choose freedom. To choose a life where you can be fully yourself, seen heard and appreciated.

That life is possible. And it starts with one choice. What are you choosing?

One Life.Lead it. Live it.

Kind regards,

Gerdi
Your success and freedom. My mission.

PS. You don't have to do it alone. But you do have to choose. Because success and freedom are not an accident. They are a strategy.

I work with women who no longer settle for mediocrity. Women who want to raise their standards - in their lives, leadership and business. Women who are ready to choose more: more freedom, more profit, more meaning.

Make your work a legacy.
Living and doing business on your terms, with fulfillment and in freedom.

Whenever you are ready:

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Integral growth in three areas:

  • Personal: more peace, direction and fulfillment
  • Business: scalable growth, innovation and leadership
  • Financial: healthy profits, smart investments and freedom

The ELLLE - Exclusive Network for Women Leaders and Entrepreneurs

The ELLLE Network is the place where women with a vision come together to grow integrally: personally, professionally and financially. Here you transform not only your business, but more importantly yourself and your legacy. 

Life, Leadership & Legacy on your terms from peace, direction and a deep sense of fulfillment.

For whom.

  • Established women leaders & entrepreneurs who want to reach their next level in business AND in life. Searching for the right place to connect from authenticity for deepening, enrichment and fulfillment. 
  • Top women who want to maximize and strategically leverage their own valuable IP, network and potential. Simplify to multiply.
  • Women who want to build their legacy and really make a difference.

Because you want to get more out of life and continue to grow profitably on a personal, business and financial level.

As Leader of Your Future = Living and Entrepreneurship on Your Own Terms

P.S.. Are you The Next ELLLE? Ready to lead your life and your business and grow profitably in all areas? Send me a personal message or schedule an immediate conversation with me. 

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